I must say
that I had quite an easy time choosing my way in life, my career.
My
grandfather who I loved dearly was a professor of civil engineering. I was
always wondered, as a child, by the amazing things one could find in his
office. A small wood panelled room in his house in Madrid. So many books,
trinkets, bones, stones and other wonders! Enough things to make a young boys
imagination, that was already asking the “how’s” and “why’s” of life, go
completely wild.
I wanted to
do what my grandfather did. So I did it. I studied civil engineering and became
a professor myself.
It was
simple, almost linear. But I am well aware that it’s a rare luck, and I was
extremely lucky. Every day I talk with my students. And every day I find in
them people struggling to find their way in life, their place.
I can only
recommend one thing: do what you love. Make mistakes, live as many experiences
as you can and decided upon a good reason.
When you
first leave high school you usually haven’t had the chance to take too many
life-changing choices, and then, you finish. All of a sudden you are asked to
choose what you want to do with the rest of your life. Just like that. Out of
the blue. So you sit down and think: “now what?”
You can’t
be expected to make the best possible choice just because you’re supposed to.
It doesn’t work that way. So what if you’re wrong, what if you pick “the wrong
degree” (for you, of course). Well nothing, really. At least you’ve learnt
something about yourself, and it’s what you DON’T want to do. You made a
mistake, you learnt something, and you pick again. This time, with more
information. A degree is not a life sentence; you don’t HAVE to stick to it
just because it was your first option.
So when
you’re given this second chance make the best of it: surf the web, ask people
about their jobs and what they did to get them, travel, read, live. Find out
where your heart wants to be. The change doesn’t have to be radical, or maybe
it does. Sometimes just a tweak in the right direction makes a gloomy future
sunnier. Maybe if this engineering isn’t quite your thing, try that other one.
Find which makes your creativity fly.
Once you
know for sure what you want to do, do it. If you love it, you’ll be good at it,
great even. If you’re great, don’t worry, the money will finish coming your
way.
So
remember, science is a tree of many branches. Start climbing the trunk and
you’ll naturally find your favourite branch. Just do what you love and it will
all be just fine.
Edit:
Maybe you might like reading "The Element" by Sir Ken Robinson, a good read and an amazing motivator.